Preparing for parents’ evening

Parents’ evening

Most schools hold parents’ evenings every term, and they’re a very important part of the relationship you develop with your child’s school and their teacher. Whether you’re about to have your first experience of a parents’ evening, or already have several under your belt, we’ve got some suggestions to help make sure you get the most out of the meeting.

Before parents’ evening

Here are some ideas on how to get the most out of meeting with your child’s teacher:

  • Check whether or not you should take your child with you, as this varies from school to school.
  • You may not see your child’s work at every parents’ evening. Very often the first meeting of the year is all about meeting for the first time and discussing aims and targets for the year.
  • Talk to your child and ask how things are going at school. Ask them what they would like you to ask the teacher. Afterwards, tell them how the meeting went, focusing on the positive comments from their teacher.
  • Try to come away from the meeting with some positive steps that you, your child, and the teachers will take to help your child succeed.
  • If your child is in reception or Key Stage 1, you can familiarise yourself with how reading and maths are taught and assessed in school by taking a look at the following area of the Oxford Owl website.
  • If you have a child in Key Stage 2, you may like to know more about the Year 6 SATs and how your child’s school will be approaching them. Take a look on the Oxford Owl website for:

 

Getting the most out of parents’ evening

Children can be rather uncommunicative about their life at school once they get to primary school – which can be difficult to adjust to if you were used to a greater level of communication while they were at nursery or pre-school. Parents’ evenings are a great opportunity to get to know their teacher and find out more about time spent in class.

There can be a lot to cover in a ten minute meeting, so write down any key questions to take with you to make sure they don’t get forgotten. It’s a good idea of jot down some notes during the meeting too, especially if your child’s teacher has suggestions for supporting your child at home.

Here are some ideas for questions to ask at your parents’ evening:

  • ‘Do they get along with other children and have strong friendship groups?’
  • ‘Do they contribute to class discussions?’
  • ‘Which area of learning is their strongest and which do they seem to enjoy most?’
  • ‘Are they making good progress?’
  • ‘What can we do at home to help?’
  • ‘Are there any areas where they are not making the progress you’d expect and what additional support are they receiving?’

 

Working together

Occasionally you may be told something that comes as a surprise. Remember that working together with school will be of the greatest benefit to your child and be prepared to hear something you didn’t know about their behaviour in class, or that they’re falling behind in a particular topic. Parents’ evening is an opportunity to share insights about your child, how they respond to other people or situations at home, their approach to homework and more. If either you or your child’s teacher is particularly concerned about an issue, they may suggest arranging a further meeting to create an action plan together – ten minutes at a parents’ evening can go very quickly.

After the meeting